Defining terms

Jalsa refers to a general sense of gratification, illicitly obtained or otherwise.

Jilpa refers to a lengthy and convoluted show of superiority without having any substance whatsoever

Gilma refers to strange, arcane and mysterious stuff, in other words, extremely interesting things.

So far, my life can be summarized as “jalsa in school and college, jilpa at work and gilma once in a while”.